"NOTHING" more sensitive than "THIS"

Have you noticed the hen fighting against dog to protect her chickens? Have you watched the movie "The Lion King"? Have you seen the bird which dies if his/her partner dies?

There is one commonality between the above three statements.

LOVE------the strongest bond between two creatures. Highly philosophical folks say that Earth still exists because of this bonding. If not ............

Something fundamentally is wrong in our economy. Not in all the places but in few places there is a misconception. Ohhh....not really a misconception. It was created by the society. Still in my family or in my area, if I somehow forget about my senses and spell the word love, I feel the embarrassment among the elders who around me. Most of them thinking that love means the physical attraction between the opposite poles i.e., a male and a female. But it's not completely true.

'Love'- I don't know how to define this four letter word. Yet, I can feel it, contemplate it and can't express it. But, it's still in my heart. Flowing all over my body. Sometimes energizes me. Sometimes makes me feel strong but sometimes weak. Sometimes makes me roam in heaven but sometimes in hell. Sometimes keeps me focused but sometimes distracted. It's a ubiquitous.

Everyone have different definitions of love. Only the definition will differ but the core part remains the same to everyone including animals.

I used to ask my friends Yae eppidi da/di ungaluku love varuthu?? ( How are you subjected to love?) Some of the responses are 

1) Some of them say "Just like that I like her and she likes me". That's all.

2) Some say "I don't know machi.....but please don't fall in love"

3) Some say "She told me her love that's why I accepted"

4) Some say "Time pass da"

5) Some of them won't say anything they just smile. Here you can see that their pupil gets dilated, face becomes red

I'm not blaming anyone here. Everyone having love but the difference is the bonding. As long as the bonding exists, LOVE exists

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My model of PEOPLE & LOVE:

According to me there are 4 kinds of people, I'm still young, my knowledge and experience is very narrow. There may be some more kinds also. I don't want to talk about first two kinds. They are extreme cases. Now-a-days, it's very hard to find those cases. It's like finding a unicorn and a white elephant. But I have heard of people like Buddha who love all the creatures in the world. But I never heard about the second kind the people who love no one.

The third and fourth kind of people are common. It may be you or me. Some people started to love others very easily and started trusting them. But you know what happens when they get betrayed by their loved ones. They suffer!! Sometime the intensity of the suffering is very high. It's like people who are addicted to morphine and suddenly if they don't get the morphine. You know what will happen. This is very serious.

The fourth kind is my favorite. People who are afraid of loving others. These people don't want their hands to get dirty. They wanted to be in safe zone. Most of them are introvert. Actually they are not afraid of love, they are afraid of the PAIN which they get due to the love. I don't know what to do? Whether to hate these people or pity on these people or suppress them by saying them as cowards or accept them as they are.

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I have a question. 

Yae eppidi da/di ungaluku love varuthu??

"HANGING without a ROPE"

Except insane people in this insane world everyone wants to live for many years....lets take it as 1000 years. I'm not joking here. If everyone gets good health and money to live for 1000 years, no one hesitate to accept it. 

OK....here I'm not going to write about living for 1000 years. I'm here going to write some stuffs about health.

Everyone needs a healthy life. But how many people are actually working in maintaining their health? Yep...some people but only after the machine gets completely rusted. This is not maintaining the health. This is like removing the rust. The saddest part here is while removing the rust some of the parts become worn out. So, this is not the correct method of maintaining our body.

One of the funniest things I came across was "All the thin people want to become fat and all the fat people want to thin". This thought came among them because of the external environment. I have two friends one is thin and the other one is fat. There is a reason behind them one who is thin want to become fat and one who is fat want to become thin. The reason is external environment (the relatives and the other friends). They used to say him you are thin and you are not healthy. You have to increase your weight otherwise you can't do any work and you will get tired soon. Next is our fat fellow. His situation is so pathetic. They menace him like, in future you will get heart attack soon, you won't get any girl friend and as usual they bombard him with lots of negative thoughts regarding the fatness. These criticisms may be or may not be true. Thinness or fatness does not relate to health.

Now I can remember one thing that I studied in biology. BMI ( Body Mass Index) is a measure based on height and weight of our body. I think it should be between 21-24. It should not be more than 24 or less than 21. Simply we can say depends on our height our weight should be there. Please do research on it. It will help. I don't want to speak about smoking and alcohol consumption. I want to be diplomatic here. People who are alcoholic and smokers are living for 80 years. People who are non alcoholic and non smokers are dying so earlier.

"According to me health is not about living longer. Health is all about doing everyday activities without having any problem in your body and someone not get disturbed because of our body problem. Simply saying waking up every morning and sleeping at every night without any pain in the mind and the body"- Ramanathan.S.

Another interesting thing happened now, I don't know it telepathy or something my batch mates coincidentally complained about the mess food to the top management of my college. Nice "CORRELATION".  They started caring about their HEALTH.

Note: I'm not encouraging smoking and alcohol consumption here. They are very bad.

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Predominance-Politics-People-Pain

"POLITICALLY STRONG"- For me these two words seem like two mammoths standing side by side.

Powerful words, isn't it? I heard these words before but they didn't create any impact on me. But when I heard those words from my professor last week. This was the first time a new neuron was created in my brain. I contemplated on hearing those mighty words.

Everyone knows that politics is everywhere. Everyone did some politics in their life. For people who haven't done the politics they will do the politics somewhere down the line in their life. I have seen people in my life who know how to do politics and also I have seen people who were empathetic who avoid politics. Who will go up in the ladder fast?

If this question was asked before 2 or 3 years. My answer will be the people who are empathetic because that kind of people will be liked by everyone and everyone have good opinion about them even the people who are doing the politics but still they do the politics to them.

But now, I'm in dilemma. I don't know what to say. An old saying is there " Do In Rome As Romans Do". If everyone is throwing stones at us, we have again respond him by throwing stones at them. If we run away from it, they still chase us and they will continue throwing stone at us. So, after a distance we have to stop, turn back, throw the stones and chase them. If not, we will be dead. This is one of the filthiest methods of responding against politics. Still now i haven't talk about the two gigantic words-"Politically Strong"

If we think about the combined meaning of these two words, it means "The animal who has the power to control others, influence others, makes its own laws or policies to push someone or pull someone who is moving in the ladder".

If we take an example, George Bush is a politically strong person. But he is not the only person. Even sales manager is politically strong over his sales people, a guy who is selling water in the middle of a desert and in some school the peons or some people who don't have enough 'Pudhi' (knowledge) to stand near a teacher are politically strong over the teacher. This is politically strong. Does it seem to be little bit awkward? Ummm... not all the times but sometimes.

I'm not against politically strong people. I'm saying that politically strong people should be fair. I know that fairness won't happen.

We can't do anything with the politically strong people. It is very hard to impinge our thoughts to that kind of people. They won't hear. Their ears will go dumb at that point of time. We have to wait in our life until we become a politically strong. We have to go through a lot of pain in our path before become a politically strong person.

Another reality is, people don't want politics happen to them but they can do politics. For them it's not politics, it's complete fairness.

I don't know how long we people (not everyone) going to run away from politics. One day all the people run in the same phase with the politics including the people who are running away from politics. That's the time we expect some fairness.

Note: Some thoughts are not mine. I heard or read somewhere.

Who will win the fight? Elephant Vs Ant

You can ask me, what a weird title? You may say, the answer is obvious. Elephant. I'm not denying. Elephant will win. But there is an equal chance for the ant to win. For the ant to beat elephant, it has to bite the elephant. Not in the leg or trunk or tail. The ant has to bite inside the ear of the elephant. That bite will make the elephant to go mad and ultimately the elephant will die. This is not a fiction. It's true. So, size or skill doesn't require to win. Just a little bit common sense and willingness along with hard work is must to win a battle.

The reason for the write up is anyone or any team can win any game or battle unless they play the game or fight the battle with great enthusiasm and with team spirit.

It was a cloudy evening. All the player were wearing the stocking, shin guard and moving towards the hockey ground. Everyone seemed to be numb. These players were like a group of birds which flies in the direction where the wind blows. They were in the ship which is sailing alone in the sea. No one was there for them to show the direction which side to fly or no light house is there for showing them the way to reach the shore. They started their warming session. One man who was watching the team x by leaning on the goal post. That man was too young. One of the first year student from the team x went near him and asked who are you? Why are you here? Go away. You are not supposed to be here. If any of our senior sees you, he not only scolding you but also scolds me. That man told the boy in a bold voice. Poda...team x la irrukum ellareiyum innga kootitu va..(Call everyone in the team x). Everyone went there. That man told them I'm your new coach. For this year I'm gonna coach you. No one in the team x believed that he was a coach.

Practice session started. After two weeks he came to know about each and everyone in the team x. He knew about everyone strengths and weaknesses. After three weeks, he said OK guys it's the time to start the level ZERO. He arranged a practice match against a secondary school hockey team. The players were so much embarrassed what the hell? We are college team x how can we play with the school team. But what to do? They have to play.

Match started. Can you predict the result? The result was 0-0. The players were ashamed. Everyone thought that today coach gonna scold us. The coach came and said OK well done boys. We have to correct something. Tomorrow morning we will meet in the ground. All the players were shocked. What the hell is happening here. Instead of new coach if some other coach would have been there he would have beaten each and everyone and all the player's jersey would have been torn by him.

Afterwards, instead of concentrating on our skills and the way of playing. He inculcated team x spirit among the players. After that we have played any matches for 2 months. Every year that team x used to receive a call from a National level hockey tournament. The reason why they were calling the team x because that team x was near to area the tournament was held. All the best teams in that state used to participate in the tournament. Some teams from other state also participate in that tournament. That tournament is like a picnic for the team x for the past ten year. They never won a single match. This time also they went with the same motive. Luckily, the first match was against a team which is of equal strength to team x. Team x won the game. All the players were happy. This like Bangladesh won its first match against Ireland. Here comes the devil. The next match was against the best team in the state. All the players in the team are national players. Wining a match in National level tournament is more than enough for the team x. They are satisfied.

Next day, the match started. In the first 30 seconds, there was a sound DUP. GOOOOOOAL.......Don't mistake it was not team x. It was the opponent. Team x decided that today they gonna score at least 15 goals. Then again match started. The ball moved from the center. The temperature of team x was increasing like when the sun moves from the east and it comes perpendicular to our head at 12 pm. We feel the heat at 12pm. The match was so vigorous. All the players in the team x were defending. First half 1-0. Second half started team x was dying in the field. Suddenly another DUP. This time team x. Final whistle 1-1. Then tie breaker 4-5. Team x won the game. No one in that tournament believed. This is like Bangladesh won against Australia. The players were dancing in the ground. This is the time the players realised about their potential and about the team spirit. When compared to the other team, team x was no where. The one thing i.e., the core competency the team x had was team spirit and the competitive advantage was the coach who showed the right direction for the team. This was not the end. This was the starting journey of team x.

Anyone can do anything. It's not about muscle power. Its about willpower.

Rare to get a 'SECOND' chance

There is an old saying "Opportunity knocks the door once". If it does not knock, we have to search for the opportunity and have to grab the opportunity.

Everyone knows about the above mentioned lines. I'm not trying to justify the above statement or try to rationalize the statement. My question is whether the young chaps in India are allowed to go for searching their opportunities or not? The reason for such useless question is, because the most of the Indians are bound by their families.

This is the story about a lad who realized about his life in the mid of 20 years of his age. He wants to search his destiny. The main obstacle for his search is his family. The mentality of the lad is to achieve something. He doesn't want to be another brick in a wall. He wants to lead his life on his own way. At the same time he thinks about his parents who taught him each and every aspect of the life. Parents not only assisted the lad to take every step during his childhood but also they assisted him to take steps to walk in the lane called life. He can't sacrifice his parents for his destiny.

If we see the perspective of parents, we can't blame them. They are also normal human beings. Take a example, if someone giving me a small cute kitten. I keep that kitten for 2 weeks. Suddenly, if someone comes and asks for the kitten, Will I give? No, absolutely not. Instead I will fight with them or I will give some ransom to them to keep the kitten with me. See, what will the parents do? They are having a big dream about that lad. They enjoyed each and every moment of the success of the lad and they worried about the future of that lad and how much they sacrificed for the lad. No one can describe the above mentioned lines. 

If we see the perspective of the lad, he doesn't want to lose his chance of searching his destiny. Because, the reason is he won't get a second chance in his life. This is the time he can go out and watch the world outside. He tried his best to stay with his parents but he couldn't. At the same time he tried his best to make his parents realize about the situation. He understands everything but his parents??????????

Which path to select? Search for his destiny or stay with their parents to make them happy.

Note: Developed from the song "Shinedown-Second Chance"