Note: I'm too lazy to do the proof reading. Bare with me for the grammatical or spelling mistakes
Many of us never notices the series similar events which happen in our daily life. When we sit and rewind all the events which happened in a specific time period, they convey something. Something which we never thought about it or we see them in a different perspective for quite sometime without realising what kind of perspective it is. One of my favourite professors relate the rule of 1/3rd with almost everything. I totally agree with the rule when it applied on anything or anyone. I always reluctant to agree whenever I applies on me. 1/3rd of the people like me 1/3rd don't and the remaining 1/3 are in-between(sometimes they do like me /sometimes they dont) Where on this why the 1/3rd of the people don't like. I have not done anything to them, i have not disturbed them then why?? My brain always curious to know. Till now it hasn't got the answer.
This bloody brain never wanted to know why 1/3rd like me. It makes it's own assumptions and happy with it. So that, it never has to accept that a set of real people don't like me. It always tries to be in the fairy tale world.
It's in our DNA, to search of something which is beyond our understanding. We force ourselves to understand everything. If we couldn't , we make assumptions and put a pull stop. The assumptions which we make for the things which don't understand going to create a big impact in our actions. The way we deal with people, making decisions and react to a situation.
I moved to a new town. It's been 2 months. Daily i have my lunch in a small place which is run by a couple in their 50s. I guess. This is only place they serve food that fills my stomach and the place where I get a free smile from the couple. I never spoken to them till now since day 1. I don't know why. It's weird know. All transactions will happen in sign languages. Only thing I didn't like about that guy in the beginning days, along with sambar he gave lots of vegetables. I don't eat vegetables in sambar. Like i said , we miss to notice the series of similar events happening in our life. One day i was standing in the queue to collect the food, i noticed that, he never gives vegetables to anyone. I started noticing everyday, he does the same. You know, whenever someone likes you , your brain never questions. I have a similar experience with a lady who sells coconut water along with her husband. Here she talks a lot to me. Usually her husband cuts coconut for everyone. When i go there, she snatch the sickle from his hand and starts cutting the coconut. She knows what kind of coconut i like and he shouts at his husband whenever he tries to give a plactic straw. She knows i m the only one customer who drinks coconut by tilting it without a straw. I always get a free coconut in the end. Initially i thought, its a business trick. Really people do all the gimmicks for 30 bucks? I doubt
Another incident, totally in the opposite horizon of the above incidents. I joined a new office, it's been 3 months. One my colleague does not like me. That's it. No explanation. See, how my brain functions. It's hard for it to accept someone don't like me.
The point here is, people like/dislike people for no reasons. No need of trying to understand the reasons for the like or dislike. Just accept it. Feel those contrasting emotions. If like/dislike comes with a reason, then it will fade away. There will be some reasons will come to challenge the existing like/dislike. Always try to understand the way of their expression, whether it is love , hatred, gratitude or contempt. Once we understand the way others express things, your brain can't trick you with something.
