Have you noticed the hen fighting against dog to protect her chickens? Have you watched the movie "The Lion King"? Have you seen the bird which dies if his/her partner dies?
There is one commonality between the above three statements.
LOVE------the strongest bond between two creatures. Highly philosophical folks say that Earth still exists because of this bonding. If not ............
Something fundamentally is wrong in our economy. Not in all the places but in few places there is a misconception. Ohhh....not really a misconception. It was created by the society. Still in my family or in my area, if I somehow forget about my senses and spell the word love, I feel the embarrassment among the elders who around me. Most of them thinking that love means the physical attraction between the opposite poles i.e., a male and a female. But it's not completely true.
'Love'- I don't know how to define this four letter word. Yet, I can feel it, contemplate it and can't express it. But, it's still in my heart. Flowing all over my body. Sometimes energizes me. Sometimes makes me feel strong but sometimes weak. Sometimes makes me roam in heaven but sometimes in hell. Sometimes keeps me focused but sometimes distracted. It's a ubiquitous.
Everyone have different definitions of love. Only the definition will differ but the core part remains the same to everyone including animals.
I used to ask my friends Yae eppidi da/di ungaluku love varuthu?? ( How are you subjected to love?) Some of the responses are
1) Some of them say "Just like that I like her and she likes me". That's all.
2) Some say "I don't know machi.....but please don't fall in love"
3) Some say "She told me her love that's why I accepted"
4) Some say "Time pass da"
5) Some of them won't say anything they just smile. Here you can see that their pupil gets dilated, face becomes red
I'm not blaming anyone here. Everyone having love but the difference is the bonding. As long as the bonding exists, LOVE exists
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My model of PEOPLE & LOVE:
According to me there are 4 kinds of people, I'm still young, my knowledge and experience is very narrow. There may be some more kinds also. I don't want to talk about first two kinds. They are extreme cases. Now-a-days, it's very hard to find those cases. It's like finding a unicorn and a white elephant. But I have heard of people like Buddha who love all the creatures in the world. But I never heard about the second kind the people who love no one.
The third and fourth kind of people are common. It may be you or me. Some people started to love others very easily and started trusting them. But you know what happens when they get betrayed by their loved ones. They suffer!! Sometime the intensity of the suffering is very high. It's like people who are addicted to morphine and suddenly if they don't get the morphine. You know what will happen. This is very serious.
The fourth kind is my favorite. People who are afraid of loving others. These people don't want their hands to get dirty. They wanted to be in safe zone. Most of them are introvert. Actually they are not afraid of love, they are afraid of the PAIN which they get due to the love. I don't know what to do? Whether to hate these people or pity on these people or suppress them by saying them as cowards or accept them as they are.
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I have a question.
