Everything Ends Once It RAINS

 

Everyone knows there is a bridge between the two extremes Birth and Death. We call that bridge as ‘Life’. The length of the bridge differs. No one can define it. The below passage is a comparison of an indefinable life with a cloud.

Life is like a floating cloud. It’s hard to define a cloud where it starts and ends. I can say it starts and ends somewhere in between the sky and the land. These clouds sometimes move alone or sometimes with their buddy clouds. In their journey, these clouds don’t know when they get the companionship. Whenever, they get some, they move along with them if not they move alone. Like that in the journey of life people get friends at some point of time. A few of the lucky friends continue their journey together. Most of them choose their own path.

These clouds from birth become the puppets for the wind. Whichever directions the wind is blowing, the clouds have to move in the same direction. They have no other choice. Dependability plays a vital role here. Are these clouds complaining about wind? No, absolutely not. They are not ashamed of their dependability. Without these wind, the clouds are nothing. They can't move anywhere. They are motionless. They can’t achieve their destiny. Their destiny is to become a rainfall. Unless a cool breeze touches them, they know they can’t achieve their destiny.

We people are also puppets for many things money, love, relationship, pride, man, woman, authority etc., there are innumerable things. Everyone destiny differs. Depends on their destiny, they choose their puppet master.

Some clouds achieve their destiny and some not. We people too. 

"Make Yourself Hard"

One of my favourites 'Sir Alex Ferguson' the manager of the football club Manchester United said in many of his encounters with the press that all the players mature at the age of 24 or 25. Most of the players will be in top form at these ages. But some of the players will get matured before 24 like Messi, Christiano Ronaldo. Both of them are world class players. You know players will be in peak form when they get matured. This applies to the people in other professions. You can see a sudden rise in the curve when you draw a graph between career life time and performance.

I don't know how to define maturity exactly. It is very difficult to get matured in all the aspects of life. But, getting maturity in his/her owns profession is very important. See in the case of Messi and Christiano Ronaldo, they are hardcore professional football players. They got all the fame in football. I don't think so both of them matured in other aspects. Sometimes they act really weird inside the ground as well as outside. Some people say those are all some tactics in football. I don't believe it. I'm not criticizing them. Everyone have their own preference. I'm just taking a situation. They don't have control over their emotions.

The first step to get matured in the profession is to have control over the emotions regarding the profession. The profession may be a student or businessman or government officer or anything. According to me, profession means it the thing we can't get rid of it under any circumstances and at the same time it will support us financial. There is no right or wrong action in the profession. That means we can do whatever we want to do in order to achieve the objectives of the profession. I'm going to talk about two extremes a cop and a robber. One is ethical and other is unethical. Their objectives are different. One thing common between them is both are professionals in their own way.

According to me maturity means contemplating about their profession so that they can move fast in their career. When people get matured, they feel the change. They feel like that they have a backup to help them. It's like having a third hand. They are more confident before. They start believe themselves.

I have seen people who matured earlier in their life time. That's really good and I appreciate it. I read somewhere mostly women get matured earlier than men. It may be true. Sometimes people become matured due to spontaneous failure fission reaction (a chain of failures). When they fail, that embarrassment happened to them due to failure made them hard like rock so that no one can break them. Some are gifted naturally. 

Think, all boys seek for matured girls and all girls seek for matured boys, professors seek for matured students, coach seeks for matured players, boss seeks for matured sub-ordinate. Matured people only can handle uncertainties and they can perform under pressure.

According to Al Ries and Jack Trout, in business the first movers always have the advantage. Same thing, person who matures earlier always has the upper hand. She/he will have their hands nearer to the ripened fruit.